You cannot hurt children


How do you make your children feel how a snap with claws feels? How do you make them realize the pain when punched on your belly or when the jump on your back when you are sleeping?



As parents, you just cannot do what they do to you. However, here's what you can.



Be a good parent and let them mingle freely with their siblings and friends and class mates. Every fight they make in their younger years make them realize the pain, but only one of its kind may not be enough, the need to fight again and again. During some fights, they ignore all the pain and continue to strive for declaring dominion. By the time they realize the pain from the clashes they had, the might have forgotten about the fight altogether. It’s a slow learning process and as they get more and more involved in fights and see others suffer in fights they learn the pain and start thinking on how to avoid situations. As parents, you just need to tell them sternly that it’s not good to fight and warn them on not to repeat. After several repeats, the idea slowly sinks in and that makes us all the fine individuals we become as grownups.



Fights give us the opportunities to tell our girls why their nails are dangerous. Once they realize the misutilization they have made they allow you to trim them happily. Boys behave differently and they may turn from being bullies to being protectors. The important thing to be taken care of is that we watch them and keep guiding them.





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